Been busy with my life- as basketball captain, hero for theater play, and so on. When I've found that my schoolmate got pregnant,I'm really touched. I'm so happy for her. Seriously, I'm so surprised and at the same time excited because one of my friend have become a MOTHER. I do want to get married too and have family. It's the dream of all girls at my age. But it just that, I've not yet find my Imam. I can't deny that I'm a little worried because most of my friend already got engaged and married. Plus my anti-social attitude that will keep boys 1000 m away from me. huhu.. I surely do not want to become a spinster...kekeke. Despite all that, I know Allah is saving me for someone special. Everything have been arranged for me. For time being, I have to prepare myself, my Iman, attitude, mental and all aspect. That may include learning how to cook, the only thing I'm not really into it. I love to eat, that's no doubt about that. Maybe I should marry a Chef. But I doubt that he'll also cook at home.
Marriage at young age really have become hot topic nowadays. People married at such a young age usually those who studied abroad or they just want a 'Halal' relationship. The one that is free of Zina, sin, and mazmumah. They usually have matured mind and setting their 'nawaitu' is only for ALLAH. Their marriage will be blessed and insyallah till Jannah. On the other hand, there are also those who married because of lust. There are people who fail in study because they can't control their lust. That's not what solely marriage is. Marriage is something sacred. It's what Allah and Rasul would like us,Ummah do as it can strengthen 'ukhuwah' and expand the number of Ummah as more baby are produced. Marriage at young age have its own pros and cons. And it all depend on the 'nawaitu' of the couple.
